His english is horrible, I think he means he talked badly about his mother because he was loading slow and then kicked him from the room for loading slow.
Solution, dude if you are loading so slow and others want to vote you out, nothing you can do about that. They aren't in the wrong for not wanting to race with someone who is going to be laggy and have horrible ping. The one guy who was verbally mean about it yes he is in the wrong but you need screen shot proof of it, otherwise its just your word against his. Also its the internet and online gaming... this is common everywhere. grow a thicker skin, get a better computer and life will improve for you.